“the best bit of advice you can give to your younger self…”

Yo. The best bit of advice you can give to your younger self is... Just fucking go for it. Don't be afraid of things, because in the end, the only one it affects is you. If you wanna be a ho, then just do it lol. Life is short and no one really cares! Alternatively, … Continue reading “the best bit of advice you can give to your younger self…”

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“How easy is it for you to forgive those who have caused you pain?”

And another one. How easy is it for you to forgive those who have caused you pain? Honestly, I think I'm a forgive and don't forget sort of person, which is unfortunate lol. Because I want to forget. But I will always remember the names, even in passing, of people who've wronged me, even if I … Continue reading “How easy is it for you to forgive those who have caused you pain?”

“what is the nicest thing someone has said to you?”

Heyyyy. What is the nicest thing someone has said to you? Oh god, there's definitely been more than one, but I feel horrible now because I can't remember any of them but the first. And I only remember the first because it was so unexpected and it was the first real compliment anyone had ever … Continue reading “what is the nicest thing someone has said to you?”

“where does beauty come from?”

Asking them questions. Where does beauty come from? Beauty is both internal and external. We can't lie and say that someone's looks don't influence public perception. We can't lie and say pretty privilege doesn't exist. But! What I think is great about beauty is that it can be transcendent. It can exist inside as strongly … Continue reading “where does beauty come from?”

“what’s the last song you heard that you enjoyed? How did it make you feel, and why?”

More questions. What’s the last song you heard that you enjoyed? How did it make you feel, and why? I've been listening to Daniel Caesar's latest album a lot. He's from my city, and it's cool to see local talent blow up like this. Music like this always makes me feel connected. It's quiet, and … Continue reading “what’s the last song you heard that you enjoyed? How did it make you feel, and why?”

“what is the single most difficult lesson you’ve ever had to learn?”

I found a bunch of journalling questions, so I'm going to answer them one at a time, sporadically. This is the first. What is the single most difficult lesson you've ever had to learn? I think, very simply, that life isn't always fair. This is something my mom used to say -- and still says … Continue reading “what is the single most difficult lesson you’ve ever had to learn?”