staying in multiple lanes.

I very often get FOMO -- fear of missing out. Actually, let me rephrase that: I used to very often get FOMO. It's not as frequent, but when it does come up, it's like a tornado ripping through all my solid, mental and emotional work. It unhinges my root chakra (that I've worked s o hard to … Continue reading staying in multiple lanes.

if you don’t have a good reason why, then why not?

Friends are a wonderful invention. To think you can meet people who like you enough without obligation is really cool. They're not related to you, so it's a special kind of relation. They don't have to be around you, but they choose to. Or, I think that's what friendship should be like, in an ideal … Continue reading if you don’t have a good reason why, then why not?

don’t waste my time, please.

There are few things I dislike more than someone wasting my time. Oftentimes, I can avoid this. I'm really picky with my time and energy and I'm getting better at distancing myself from things that don't vibe with me. I used to feel horrible, though. If a friend asked me to do something, I would … Continue reading don’t waste my time, please.

you should never tell anyone anything, otherwise you end up missing everybody.

I'm not the best at opening up to people. Like I've said before, I try, but just can't seem to. I don't know when a good time is to talk about myself, and sometimes I feel as if interjecting makes me a conversation hijacker. I feel also sometimes that people don't care. It's harsh, but … Continue reading you should never tell anyone anything, otherwise you end up missing everybody.