staying in multiple lanes.

I very often get FOMO -- fear of missing out. Actually, let me rephrase that: I used to very often get FOMO. It's not as frequent, but when it does come up, it's like a tornado ripping through all my solid, mental and emotional work. It unhinges my root chakra (that I've worked s o hard to … Continue reading staying in multiple lanes.

if you don’t have a good reason why, then why not?

Friends are a wonderful invention. To think you can meet people who like you enough without obligation is really cool. They're not related to you, so it's a special kind of relation. They don't have to be around you, but they choose to. Or, I think that's what friendship should be like, in an ideal … Continue reading if you don’t have a good reason why, then why not?

don’t waste my time, please.

There are few things I dislike more than someone wasting my time. Oftentimes, I can avoid this. I'm really picky with my time and energy and I'm getting better at distancing myself from things that don't vibe with me. I used to feel horrible, though. If a friend asked me to do something, I would … Continue reading don’t waste my time, please.