And another one.
How easy is it for you to forgive those who have caused you pain?
Honestly, I think I’m a forgive and don’t forget sort of person, which is unfortunate lol. Because I want to forget. But I will always remember the names, even in passing, of people who’ve wronged me, even if I decide to do nothing about it. And most of the time, I do.
I’m used to curating my space now so I’ll just cut people away, and not give people the privilege of being in my space. I think that is “punishment” enough, even though I don’t see it as willfully punishing another person. I wouldn’t want to do that, anyway. I’m just saying if someone does me wrong, I hope they don’t expect that I’ll continue to tolerate them disrespecting me in my personal space. That would just be stupid.
But do I really forgive those people? Uhhhh I guess. I think at the end of days, I realize it’s not really worth it, and I attempt to move on and into greener pastures.